I have a question on how to wear a satchel style purse that essentially has 3 handles. Do you carry it in your hands or do you wear it on your shoulder? And many of them have very long shoulder straps; do you just let the shoulder strap hang/dangle down? Maybe this is a purse that's not particularly a good style for me. Either way, the strap will dangle nearly on the ground if I carry it by the other two handles or the purses hang way to long, close to my hips, if I use the strap on my shoulder. I find this style of purse very confusing with so many options!