So sorry to hear about you having to deal with a house fire, GlosengerA. That is a very good question! Bras: buy beige because it is discrete under any coloured top; 2 regular, and one that converts into regular/halter/strapless if you need that; also one black. Panties: again mainly beige; 2 shape-wear in synthetic material, 5 beige cotton blend to breathe in hot weather, 1 black to match your black bra. Socks: depends on your body type. I am long waisted, short legged, so want my socks to match my pants, 2 pear in each colour pants I wear all the time, 1 pear each in pants worn less frequently. Also 4 pair socks to go with shorts/casual skirts (I like white below-ankle socks that barely or don't peak out of cute runners.) I have 3 pairs of winter knee-high socks for living in a cold climate; if you're in a warmer climate, you might need more ankle socks. Look forward to hearing what others suggest.....