I hope not to make this too tmi, but I'm looking for a good brand of underwear that fits well. Leslie encourages to wear clothes that make us feel good about ourselves. I feel this could be applied here as well. I don't I'm quite ready for granny underwear, but want something that my tummy roll won't necessarily make it roll down. I couldn't handle anything like a thong, too old for that one. I need something in between if that exists. Any suggestions?

I like Jockey -- they have a variety of different "cuts", so you could try out a few and see what fits you best. For my tummy bulge, lower-rise undies are best (and then I go for higher-rise pants when possible, to avoid cutting the bulge in half and making it stick out even more...).