Catherine, I like your outfit! Unsolicited advice, huh? Yikes!! I do think she's right about the necklace -- it's almost the same length as your neckline, so it "competes" visually. A solid scarf would look great with that gorgeous patterned top...pink would "pop" (there is some pink in there) or you could pick one of the other colours. Or if not a scarf, then maybe some dangly earrings? As for the Spanx and heels...good grief, a woman's gotta be comfortable! (Personally, I wear wedges sometimes, but that's about it, except for very special occasions.) Her outfit sounds like it meets all the criteria for "dressy casual" that MSP posted about this week. I'm wearing something similar: dark-wash skinny jeans, riding boots, navy blazer, bright red turtleneck, and a long asymmetrical necklace.