Hard to believe nobody's posted yet and this has been up for 2 days! What are we? Rarities? I'm as thick as I am wide, believe me, I know what you mean. And yet I do have a vwey defined waist. But you can only see that from front or back view. I worked in a seni-professional office years ago. One day I happened to wear black pants and a white man-tailored shirt. Last thing I wanted to do was to tuck the shirt in. I put on a thin gold belt that one of my DDs had left at my house, and let my shirt-tails fly. And I went to work half-expecting to be sent home. As soon as he saw me, my boss said, "I had no idea a belt could make you look so much slimmer." I don't have any behind to speak of, but apparently the shirt-tail + belt evened everythig out. Since then, whatever I wear, I do something to define my waist. One of my DDs does the same, and she has no waist, and it works for her. It even works for my other DD, who has defined waist, big behind and large bust, but we're all "A"s with poochy tummies.