10-28-19 THIS WEEK: The Power of Accessories

October 28, 2019, 3:15 pm by MSP


This week: The Power of Accessories

I’ve been wanting to share what makes some women so stylish, while others, not so much. The answer my dear SYSters, always leads me back to the same conclusion-it’s the accessories that make all the difference. Yes, accessories are that powerful!


For example, say you and I are both wearing identical outfits. Our basic outfits will look completely different depending upon our choice of accessories, shoes, and handbags. Every woman has her own unique spin, or take on accessories...and that's a good thing! It's how you accessorize that shows off your uniqueness and personality.



THIS WEEK: Learn flattering techniques to accessorize your outfits...

More is not necessarily better!





Not sure how to accessorize? No worries. This week at MissusSmartyPants will show you various ways to accessorize. You will see a variety of chic ideas to help you improve your style-instantly. Not every accessory is for every woman, but having so many examples to choose from will help you discover a few new favorites. After all, it's the accessories that makes every woman more stylish and chic!


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MSP's Weekly Style Mission

This week’s mission: GET one (1) item that's still missing from your closet or makeup drawer.

This week, go out and get just one item, then mark it off your list! Don’t get carried away-get only 1 item you need (okay, maybe two of them, lol!).


What's on your wardrobe list?


Here are a 6 suggestions of what your closet or makeup drawer might still be missing:

__A set of makeup brushes. (Or, wash your makeup brushes w/ gentle face wash...btw, when was the last time you cleaned them?)

__Get a pair of Soma's “Vanishing Edge” panties! Soma Vanishing Edge Cotton/Modal Blend Brief

__Update your bra! Get a supportive bra (including a professional fit) at Nordstrom. They have the BEST selection like this pretty one: Wacoal Basic Beauty Underwire Contour Bra-5 colors!

__Take your pants or skirts that need alterations to the tailor this week for hemming or mending.

__Update your “Style File” (3-ring notebook with style articles, style photos, etc.). Add new fall articles that inspire you.

__Purchase a colorful scarf in your Seasonal Colors...It will be the first thing you'll wear this fall!


I’m sure there are other things you can think of. Just make a list, then see which item(s) you can "check" off from your list. There's no hurry...after all, it's a style journey!

Love, Leslie MSP


Dear MissusSmartyPants...

Dear MissusSmartyPants,
I've been a subscriber since June, and I think I'm 'getting it'! The other day I tried dressing 'casual chic' with items already in my closet and while I may not have hit the bull’s-eye, at least I was on the board! I was at the mall today and for the first time in my life, I am consistently seeing how clothes can work together to create outfits! This is so exciting!

I was also raving about you to my friend, and I think she will sign up too! We're both new moms with kids under three, but we still want to look our best without spending a lot of money. For us, that means finding pieces that work multiple ways, and also are practical and comfortable since we're moving around a lot with the kids.

I do have a question: I live in a warmer climate and am struggling with layering for fall. In summer when it's 90 or 100 degrees I don't want to wear a jacket, sweater, or scarf, and most of the year it's over 80 degrees and I don't really want to layer then either! I'm an A profile which I guess means no thin strappy tank tops, so I feel like that limits my options. Do you have any advice for me and others in warmer climates?

Also, I would love to see a 'baby steps to MSP' similar to Flylady's babysteps. As someone who has had no fashion interest or sense for most of my life, it has been a bit overwhelming to try to figure out where to start. I purged my closet and found some great jeans that fit me well, but I'm not sure where to go from here to figure out my style or round out my wardrobe.

Sorry this is so long, but I have to also say thank you so much for what you do! I don't have the time to hunt down the fashion tips you provide in your e-mails, so if it weren't for you and FlyLady, I would probably still be in my maternity sweats and flip-flops several years from now! You have both helped me change my life for the better.

Thank you so much! Please sign me: New Mom in Texas

MSP HERE: Dear New Mom in Texas,
I’m so happy to hear you are ‘getting it’. Style certainly does take some trial and error and we don’t get things ‘right’ every time, and that’s okay.
I believe that every morning when we decide what to wear, it is much more than just putting on clothes, it’s an opportunity to express who we are.
To answer your style question about dressing in a very warm climate, you are limited in your choices due to warmer temps. Instead of trying to wear scarves, lightweight jackets and such, it’s best to play up your style with COLOR. For example, look for ballet flats in fun colors, colorful striped totes, colored bottoms or floral skirts. 
I do understand when you start a journey of improved style and begin dressing for your body type; it can be a bit overwhelming. However, if you use FlyLady’s philosophy of “one babystep at a time” you will begin to have “AHA” moments and slowly understand the elements of style. 
4 tips to get your style to come together:
1. Start with a closet purge. Remove what you are not wearing, so you can see what IS being worn (you are probably only wearing 20% of what’s in your closet).
2. Review the weekly shopping guides for your body type. This is the best way to help you understand which clothes flatter and balance your shape best (and why).
3. Read (and save for future reference) the weekly Style Articles. They will give you very specific style: like understanding the basics of body proportion, dressing an undefined waist, how to select the right shoe for what you are wearing, and more!
4. Use my List of Wardrobe Basics (posted in each Personal Profile) to help you build your list of essentials every woman should have. There are lots of great style tips listed there to help you as well.
Please enjoy your style journey because this is something every woman needs to do for herself. Remember: it’s not about the destination, but the journey itself.
Love, Leslie MSP

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